Christmas gifts for a 4 year old: 72 picks from a paediatric OT
Here are my Christmas gift picks for four-year-olds, grouped by type of play. Pretend play starts moving out of the home and into shops, cafés and restaurants at this age, so I've shown how those sets fit together.
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Pretend play at home
6 giftsKids learn from what you do around the house, and that's what they play out. Cooking, eating, cleaning and caring for babies are usually the first scenes, and these sets fit straight into bigger scenes as their play grows.
Lots of characters, and they actually stand up, so they work in pretend play. Going to work in a uniform, then coming home and changing into a home outfit: playing out daily routines.
Eating and drinking is one of the first scenes kids play out. Get more use out of it by playing cafés, where they bring you your coffee or tea order.
Pram, bed, feeding bits. Opens up all the looking-after play, which some kids will do for hours.
They're not just food: they cut apart and stick back together, so they can play chef and make you lunch. More tool use and fine motor skills too.
A well-stocked play kitchen gets used for years. Cooking, serving, running a cafe, feeding the dog.
So cool. A little pasta maker, a stovetop, a card machine, a cheese maker, and you can make tomatoes, mushrooms, lettuce and burgers. A really cool way to set up a play kitchen. I really like this one.
Pretend play out in the world
5 giftsOnce kids have played a lot around what happens inside the home, they tend to shift their play to things outside the home: shops, cafés and restaurants. The home sets carry straight over. The cutting food stocks the pizza shop, and the tea set turns into a café.
This has all the tools a kid needs to run a pizza shop, or maybe an Italian restaurant. Lots of skill opportunities: taking orders, following instructions to prep the pizza, remembering someone's order, practicing money skills and communication.
How cool is this? The people have little suitcases that fit inside the bus. I'm a big fan of play where the bus picks people up and drops them off, a play loop that can go all day. Absolutely love this one.
With a cash register, they can run pretty much any business: a beauty salon, a barbershop, a restaurant or a café. It helps with maths and money skills too. The only downside is the US play money. I couldn't find a version with Australian money, but you can buy some or print out Australian notes to go with it.
It can turn into an ice cream shop, or be a bigger part of a restaurant scene.
Kids often play out going to the shops, because they're often going with a family member.
Dress-up and role play
3 giftsPretend play with a costume. Role play lets them become someone else for a while: the tradie, the vet, the doctor. Research suggests stepping into someone else's shoes like this can help kids understand other people's thoughts, feelings and perspectives.
The costume turns them into a tradie, a mechanic, maybe an electrician.
This time they get to be the vet, with a plush dog and cat to look after.
Handy before a real doctor or dentist visit, too.
Characters and small worlds
8 giftsIf you've heard me talk about pretend play, you'll know I'm a big fan of character toys without lots of tiny accessories. There's lots of research on what pretend play does for development, and lots of kids enjoy making up characters and talking through them. As the stories get bigger, a house gives the characters somewhere to play out their day.
Perfect for adding to any pretend play, and a toy they won't outgrow for years.
Characters they already love, with years of pretend play in them.
Chunky animals for pretend play, naming and animal noises.
A whole zoo of little soft friends. Brilliant for hiding games and endless storylines.
Imaginative play, sequencing and storytelling with characters they already love.
Dinos AND vehicles in one. If your child loves both, this is the dream toy. Pull-back cars, carrier truck, figures.
Realistic animals that end up in every kind of play.
As kids' play gets more complicated, they need a bigger scene. A playhouse or dollhouse is a great way to do that, with bigger stories where the characters play out their day in a house.
In the kitchen and garden
2 giftsI'm a fan of getting kids involved in real jobs at a young age. Skills and independence, with supervision.
Kids this age are old enough to start learning kitchen skills with supervision, and these minimise the risk of cuts.
They can get involved in the gardening too.
Family games
8 giftsBoard games are great for turn taking, waiting and a bit of anticipation. I love, love, love cooperative games, because they take out the winning and losing part, which is hard at this age. You've got more chance of everyone having a good time if you choose cooperative over competitive, and even games designed to have a winner and a loser can be played in a cooperative way.
Another classic. When a game has been selling for this many years, you know it's a good one. The anticipation of when the pirate will pop is exciting, and there's fine motor, hand coordination, colour naming and turn taking in there too. One of my top picks for a first board game.
Another early board game built around going shopping, and Bluey gets them in.
A really popular card game, and lots of fun for all ages. I enjoy playing it as an adult, so it's a really family-friendly one to get. There are lots of different versions too.
We all know kids love a good magnet toy. Another chance for turn taking, plus colours, letters and hand-eye coordination.
A first 'real' card game. Matching, turn-taking, losing well.
A cooperative game, so nobody loses. You can't really expect kids this age to cope well with losing yet.
Art, stickers and first tools
10 giftsA tool is anything you hold in your hand to do a job. Practicing with crayons, chalk, markers and dough now helps later with colouring, drawing, writing and holding cutlery, plus hand-eye coordination.
I can vouch for this 100%. A similar water magic book is a core item in my kids' travel kit, because every time I tested it, this was the one kids kept coming back to and spent the longest on. And it's reusable.
A great way to be outside while working on tool use and drawing skills.
I have to vouch for these, because a reusable sticker book is in my travel kit. Instead of one-time stickers, they go on and come off over and over, so kids can create endless scenes. Stickers have a special novelty that makes them fun, and the peeling and placing is great fine motor work. There's also a puffy Safari version.
Painting without the mess. Water on the page, colour appears, dries, do it again.
Basically a giant water magic book that lives at home. Kids can draw whatever they like with just a bit of water. Mess-free, so you won't need to get out any paints.
I have a set of these and quite like them. A good one for kids who aren't interested in drawing or writing. They still work on grasp, they're just a bit of extra fun.
Twist-up crayons that glide on, so they don't need to press hard to get colour.
Twenty-five cutting activities in order: snipping first, then straight lines, then curves.
A similar idea to a water magic book. If you like the sound of that but don't want water everywhere, this is a good pick. The colour only shows up on the special paper.
Something different and unique that serves a few purposes. A sensory tool for kids who like light-up things, a way to draw and make patterns, or a board for games like Connect Four. Portable enough for the car, too.
Sensory play
5 giftsHands-on play that resets, so they can do it all again.
Silks for play are one of the most underrated toys. Peek-a-boo, dress-up, dancing, sensory exploration. Endless uses.
Fill a bin with rice, dried pasta or kinetic sand and add these. Scooping, pouring, tweezering things out.
Awesome sensory play that you can just set up and pack back away.
Decorate the little characters and give them personalities, then wash them off in the little bathtub and start again.
Sensory play that packs away into its own box, with trucks for pretend play.
Building and how things work
13 giftsFor kids who like to build things, knock them over and figure out how they work. Set it up, see if it works, adjust it: great for problem solving and persistence.
Portable, because they come in a tin, and they come with reference cards. Good for kids who get stuck for ideas with a regular block set and need lots of help. They look at a card and build the shape. Lots of visual perception: can they see it accurately, work out which parts make the whole picture, and recreate it?
Sequencing, fine motor strength and problem solving through tool-based play, plus lots of imaginative storytelling.
Three different vehicles from one set of bricks.
If you're just getting started, this is a good set to grab. I like the variety of pieces. It even comes with dinosaurs that can be characters in the scenes they build, plus windows and doors.
Build it, test it, fix it. Wooden and sturdy.
Not just a regular domino set. It comes with extras like a bell and stairs, for kids who love to build things and knock them over.
Build a run, launch the ball, see if it works, make an adjustment.
The ultimate marble run setup, with extras that make it more fun: a slide, a spinner wheel and different ramps.
For kids who are really into making things and need a step up. A good loose parts set, with screws, wheels, tools and lots of random pieces, so they can use their creativity to make whatever they like.
A road track that can be set up basically anywhere. The pieces fit together like a puzzle, so they build their own shape. Great for kids who love car play or Hot Wheels, race stories, bus stories, or building a bigger town. A great open-ended toy.
The premium magnetic tile set. Translucent colours, premium quality, and endlessly open-ended. Worth the investment.
A super engaging sensory toy. The airflow, movement and popping balls encourage experimenting, and it grows with them. Great for little engineers in the making.
Active play
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I love bowling as an activity. Throwing or rolling things towards a target helps with managing energy. Great indoors down a hallway, or outdoors at the park or in the backyard.
So much fun. I gifted one a couple of Christmases ago, and kids of all ages were playing with it for a good half hour as soon as it was opened.
For kids who love throwing, this is a great indoor one. It's a mini hoop with soft foam balls, so you can redirect all the throwing and keep it safe.
Rock on your own or with someone facing you. Two kids have to find the same rhythm, which is half the entertainment.
Cubbies, ramps, boats, obstacle courses. Kids build their own adventures. Families rave about these and they genuinely get used for years.
Jump into it, roll on it, crash into it. Kids who like a heavy landing love these. Pairs well with a lycra swing.
Books, music and stories
6 giftsRhythm can be really calming, and screen-free audio players are a great way for kids to listen to music and stories on their own.
An Aussie picture book series, and one of my community picks of what parents are getting their kids this Christmas.
For kids who are constantly wanting to take photos on your phone. They can start taking all of their own.
If you can handle the noise, I think it's a really great pick. Instruments let them dance along to their favourite songs and express themselves.
Colour-coded tubes you whack to play real notes. Follow along with YouTube videos to play actual songs together, or grab a song book. Brilliant for music lovers and even better as a family band.
Similar to the Toniebox, and just as popular. Kids choose their own stories and music with cards.
Really popular. I don't have one myself, but I've seen countless parents rave about it. A great screen-free way for kids to listen to music and stories.
Questions parents ask
What should I get my 4 year old for Christmas?
At four, a lot of kids are into role play, small worlds and their first proper games. Building sets, first scissors and craft are popular too. Pick the kind of play your child already loves and start in that section.
What are good Christmas gifts for preschoolers?
Everything on this list suits most preschoolers. For younger preschoolers, the 3 year old guide has more pretend play and DUPLO.
What's a good Christmas gift for a 4 year old boy or girl?
The same toys work for both. I'd pick by what your child is into, like building, moving, pretend play or stories, rather than by whether they're a boy or a girl. If you're stuck, my free toy quiz matches picks to your child.
Are there good Christmas gifts for 4 year olds under $20?
Yes. Ten of the picks above are under $20, including the Peppa Pig Family of Five ($11.95), TOMY Pop Up Pirate ($14.95), the Bluey Shopping List Game ($15.95) and Spot It! Bluey ($19).
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Brittany has been registered with AHPRA for nearly nine years and has run her own practice for five, working with kids and their families across homes, schools and her clinic. Clinical days are Monday to Wednesday. Thursdays and Fridays she builds Kidera, the child development brand she founded in Perth.
What she doesn't do here: diagnose anything, or tell you what your particular child needs. If something about your child's development is nagging at you, the person to talk to is someone who can actually watch them play, your GP, your child health nurse, or an OT who can do a proper assessment.
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